Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Wednesday Adventures

Hello from the Arctic blast!  Thanks to everyone who has left comments!  You have no idea how comforting it is to come into our warm hotel every night, turn on the computer and see that so many people are out there cheering us on.  This whole experience has been overwhelming, exhausting, and confusing being in a foreign country and taking in everything that comes with this process.  Nothing warms our hearts more than your words.

Wow, it suddenly became so bitter cold that you can hardly breathe!  The wind is gusting and throwing dry snow around with a vengeance.  We want to go sightseeing,but it’s nearly impossible when you feel like you’re on the North Pole, and that’s with a down coat, scarf, gloves and hat! 

Unfortunately, today started off on the wrong foot.  We were supposed to meet our coordinator in the hotel lobby at 9:20 am.  Well, we didn’t even think about setting the alarm because we’ve been waking up at 7 or so every morning, no problem.  At 9:30 our phone rang.  We were sound asleep.  I only slept about 4 hours last night even after taking a Unisom. I lied awake from about 3 to 6 am.  The combination of stress and jet lag is not good when you need sleep.  I think she was a bit annoyed by us.  We had to throw on our clothes, brush our teeth and fly down there so we could get to the Notary Public on time.  We were scheduled to go get our official acceptance paper notarized at 10:00.  Getting something notarized in this country is a much bigger deal than it is in America.  Notaries have had extensive law training and you have to pay them quite a bit to stamp your papers for you.  It’s serious business.

While we’re on the subject of "this country,"can I just say how surreal everything is to us?   We walk into these old, run down buildings, like the place where the Ministry of Education works.  Stucco is falling off the walls and there is a grumpy man with a fur hat sitting behind a glassed-in desk as you walk in and you can’t help but think, “We are in a movie, no?  This can’t be 2010.”  Most of the professionals are women who are dressed really nicely, so you would imagine that their offices would be nice.  But they are right out of the 1960s.   The buildings in this area are all tall and many of them look like they were built 40 years ago or so, but they are only about 15 to 20 years old.  There just isn’t money to keep them up updated or repair them.  We take our nice buildings, cheerful customer service and laid-back driving in America so for granted! 

 
After having our paper notarized, we stopped into this quaint little restaurant that no one but the people who work in the nearby government building likely know about.  It was so cool, though.  We ordered "Stuffed Pancakes" which are really more like crispy crepes with stuff in them.  (I haven't been impressed with the food we've had so far, BTW.  It's expensive and...not real tasty.)

When we were done with breakfast, we drove through the thick traffic to the office of the Minestry of Education and Elena took our official acceptance of our referral in.  So the committee now knows that we have met Anna in person and that we indeed still want to adopt her.  (That’s what this trip is for.)  We could probably go home tomorrow if we wanted to, but we want to have a few more visits with our Anna girl before we leave her for 2-3 months.  We're worried she won't remember us. :(

 We had several hours before our time at the orphanage so Jeremy and I went to the Hermitage Museum.  Wow!  What a place!  It's one of the largest museums in the world with over 1,000 rooms!  And packed full of original paintings, sculptures, tapestries, mosaics...you name it, from all over the world.  The queen who lived here kept building on and building on to the palace and buying more and more artwork to fill it up.  I've never seen more original works in two hours in my life! 


It was really cute seeing all the groups of school children walking through the museum. I had to get a picture of one of the groups leaving.  Also, Leonardo DiCaprio was in the museum when we were there! We didn't see him, but one of the workers told our tour guide they saw him.  Cool, huh?


Jeremy wanted me to take this  picture so he could show one of his contractors that he advertises for him all over the world! :)

And to the right, we have nothing other than a Michelangelo sculpture!



After our adventure at the Hermitage, we had the driver stop at the hotel so I could put a little makeup on for the day since I had no time that morning and take a 10 minute snooze to fuel up for our one orphanage visit for the day.  When we got there, the director had us go to into their rec room.  Anna came running in all excited to see us and wondering what fun things we had in store for today.  We got out a ball and some My Little Ponies, but all she wanted to do was color and look at her photo book we made her.  It's obvious that she is not accustomed to any roughhousing.  We tried that and she just got mad and said "Nyet!"  Elena told us that's totally expected, I mean all of her caregivers are women, and they have 12 kids under 7 to look after....who's ever going to do any roughhousing with these kids?  She'll learn about all that when she gets home with her brothers, though. Hopefully she'll like it after a few nights. :)  She didn't like rolling the ball or playing make believe, either.  She just likes looking at pictures, coloring, playing with the iPhone...anything visual and fine motorish. Typical of Ds...we'll have to work with her to round her out a bit, I'm sure. 

What a gal.  We wish we could bring her home with us. 

 Tomorrow, I'll have Jeremy write.  I think he needs a turn at this.  Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! We'll miss our family greatly, but thinking about what we are grateful for will make up for any emptiness we feel being way from them.  We can't complain a bit.  Just look at what the Lord has given us. More than we ever imagined, times a million.

9 comments:

  1. Oh wow, you guys look so cute together! I've noticed only now that you have updated this blog with actual photos of Anna and you together. Love it, love it, LOVE it! Especially the pictures of your very first meeting with Anna were really touching. Glad that you shared those precious moments. I know, I've told you over and over again but I'm so, so excited for you guys. Can't wait for you to take her home soon. And I bet all your kids over there can't either. But the December always goes by so fast and then there's only 1 (or 2 months) left- and what's that in comparison with all the time you've spend waiting for Anna anyway?!
    Sorry about the weather, seems to be an (at least North) European problem right now, it has gotten bad here too. Yesterday it was still allright but today?! Oh well, let's not talk about that, makes me have a bad mood! Bäh.

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  2. So glad you are able to blog and put pictures up. I can't wait each day to see what you have done and see new pics of that little angel. You are both amazing. Hope you have a great trip despite the freezing weather. Not much better here. Enjoy your adventure there!

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  3. I've been out of the loop for awhile and didn't realize you were actually in country meeting Anna. She is beautiful and I still think she resembles our Dasha! Love seeing you all together and I can't wait to see her finally home.
    Liz (Dasha '08 Ukraine)

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  4. You guys are amazing! Thank you for keeping us updated with pictures and all. You're in our thoughts and prayers. We'll miss you tomorrow but are so excited for what you are doing and the new member of "our" family. She will be so loved by so many. Be safe, love you!

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  5. so excited for you remember to take it all in it goes so fast. Glad we were there when it was not as cold I think we brought it home with us though. it is so cold in Oregon now that our car doors were frozen shut yesterday.have fun with your sweet sunny girl!oh and Happy Thanksgiving maybe you can find some turkey while there haha but it will probably just be in soup since they eat soup like crazy.oh and tea can't forget tea!they even give the babies tea.we did eat at pizza hut it was pretty good lol hugs!!!!!!!!

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  6. OH WOW!!!! This has by far been the best part of my week, reading about your union with little anna. I just stared at your pics for so long with tears in my eyes! it really is real! i loved reading about her laugh. you are exactly right, there is nothing i love to hear more than james laughing. in fact, we have a little game and one of us will start a staring contest to see who will laugh first. i'm so glad it's gone so well. thanks for taking the time to update us. we are sooo excited for you guys, we love you! enjoy being just the 2 of you, you deserve it! jen and dave happy thanksgiving!

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  7. Looks like you guys had quite a day right from the word go....I love that you are getting to do a little more than just hotel and orphanage, I love the museum it looks so grand and seeing all those orginal paintings and sculptors, wow I'm jealous. But the best part is when I see pictures of Anna, oh she is lovley, this must be hard coming back home for 2-3 months, especially after having met her and now waiting for the time to pass, if only you could bring her right back with you now.

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  8. I LOVE to get your updates! Heather you look fabulous for waking up late! Have a great Thanksgiving!

    Suzi

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  9. Oh, it breaks my heart that you can't bring her home with you. That's gonna be rough. Looks like she has an instant connection with you guys. Jeremy's comments about noticing all the little things with her physical appearance in comparison to a newborn baby was very touching. What a neat experience to finally spend time with her.

    I love the picture of the kids in the colorful coats by that green building. Your pictures are just as I imagined Russia to be. Looks cccccoooooold! Can't wait to get your next update. Be safe and have fun...and give my new little niece kisses for me. Love you guys.

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